Handling Women's Most Awkward Moments with Modern Etiquette

In today’s episode, Valeria sits down with Alison Cheperdak, an etiquette coach, author, and lawyer for a deep dive into the world of modern etiquette.

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In today’s episode, Valeria sits down with Alison Cheperdak, an etiquette coach, author, and lawyer for a deep dive into the world of modern etiquette. Forget the stuffy image of rules about cutlery — Alison shares how etiquette is all about kindness, respect, and navigating relationships in a fast-changing world. The conversation covers everything from first-date dilemmas, setting boundaries in friendships, and handling workplace challenges to mastering the art of introductions and elevating your party & networking experiences 

Whether you're looking to polish your professional presence, improve your communication, or simply find better ways to connect with others, this episode is packed with practical tips and real-life insights. Valeria and Alison also tackle tricky situations like receiving unwanted gifts, dealing with gossip, and gracefully handling public embarrassment.

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What We Talked About:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 02:38 What is modern etiquette?
  • 03:14 Misconceptions about etiquette
  • 05:09 Career shift
  • 10:17 Should a woman pay for the first date?
  • 12:13 How to deal with gossips
  • 16:25 Ending friendships
  • 21:46 Etiquette in the workplace
  • 25:20 Hype yourself up
  • 27:54 It’s not about the gender
  • 33:40 Unwanted attention
  • 35:36 Dress code
  • 38:45 Backhanded compliments
  • 39:27 Feeling excluded
  • 43:45 Public humiliation
  • 45:18 Incorporate modern etiquette into self-improvement
  • 47:55 Topics to discuss
  • 51:09 Missing the moment to connect
  • 53:05 Etiquette in parties
  • 59:20 How to join a conversation
  • 01:00:52 Communication skills
  • 01:02:42 Etiquette and networking
  • 01:05:29 Finding a mentor
  • 01:08:32 Modern etiquette for women
  • 01:11:57 Etiquette tips for women
  • 01:13:51 Celebrating achievements

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Alison Cheperdak

Alison M. Cheperdak, J.D., is the founder of Elevate Etiquette, a distinguished consultancy that offers social, business, and dining etiquette courses, as well as international protocol. From private coaching to keynoting conferences, Alison is a sought-after speaker who shares her expertise in etiquette and executive presence with individuals and organizations around the world. She has spoken at Harvard Law School and the U.S. Congress, and her insights have been featured in Vogue.com among other publications. Alison also educates and inspires millions each month across social media with her daily etiquette posts. Her passion for etiquette began more than a decade ago while planning her wedding. With a growing curiosity about wedding etiquette, she purchased her first etiquette book, sparking a lifelong interest. Since then, she has read countless books on etiquette, protocol, and emotional intelligence, and graduated with merit from The English Manner and Beaumont Etiquette’s Train the Trainer Grade One and Grade Two Programs. Alison's professional background profoundly influences her perspective on etiquette and social graces. After graduating magna cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa from Villanova University, she worked as a TV news reporter and anchor for an NBC station in New York. She then moved to Washington, D.C., where she earned her law degree from The George Washington University Law School. Throughout her legal career, Alison worked in a large corporate law firm as well as in the legislative, judicial, and executive branches of the federal government, including the West Wing of the White House. She also served in a senior leadership position at a national nonprofit.

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